To blog or Not to blog..

… THAT is the question!

I greatly enjoy being able to share our experiences and thoughts about the lifestyle. Being able to put down into words, the happenings of our lives in regards to swinging, is a great release.

I have always loved journaling and keeping a diary of sorts, and blogging is just another extension of that, but with feedback!

But… it has recently come to our attention that we are not as anonymous as we think we are.

Being linked up with GentleNibbles through the blog is great, in the sense that we are able to get a little more exposure than we normally would just having a blog somewhere out there on the internet. The only bad thing about it, is that GentleNibbles is very exposed through CT and many people from there find their way from CT to their site and to ours in extension.

So, while it’s a great thing for exposure.. it’s also in the same sense.. a bad thing. Well, maybe “a bad thing” isn’t necessarily the right word, but I cannot think of a better word at this time.

You see, as I mentioned before.. we are not as anonymous as we think we are.

When we first started the blog, BB and Deviant realized who we were from the get go, and we had never even actually met at that point. That wasn’t really a bad thing, because it was actually nice knowing that we had one couple who knew who we were and we could share experiences with without actually “kissing and telling” so to speak. It was all of our little secret and it was/is nice. But.. we have come to realize that they are not the only ones who have read the blog and figured out who we are.

The whole point, is for us to be anonymous and to be able to share our thoughts, feelings and experiences without having to feel the need to censor ourselves because someone knows who we are. To be able to be truly honest about what we have gone through.. a REAL look into our lives. No flowering up our thoughts or feelings, not having the need to be “politically correct”.. just real and honest.

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A little Love and Exposure

Hey all you hotties,

We just wanted to make everyone aware that as of today’s (9/22/09) Gentle Nibbles implementation all posts posted on active blogs on the FreeSwingersBlog.com network will appear on the front page of www.gentlenibbles.com. 

This should hopefully give some of our great new writers some exposure and send some new readers your way. 

The order in which they appear is simply chronological with the most recent post on top.  If you have any questions or concerns please feel free to give us a shout!

~thenibblers