7 Days of Swinging…

I had a very adventurous week last week.  More playtime than I’ve had in a while and all different types.  My husband is generally the one who helps balance me and make sure that we keep this swinging thing in perspective.  I tend to live in extremes - all or nothing.  My husband, on the other hand, is very balanced and understands how to keep the many facets of his life in check.  Sometimes this manifests itself as me feeling like he is stopping me from having fun or putting restrictions on me.  In reality, I think he saves me from myself.  Without him, who knows where I would go, where I would be.  In any case, he has been very open lately and allowing me to have a little more freedom and frequency.  So, it’s been an interesting week.

Last Saturday night, we answered a booty call on Lifestyle Lounge from a single guy whose profile we’ve noticed for a while.  His profile is one that doesn’t rely on a lot of photos or text.  His booty calls are usually one word.  This is a guy who my husband has been wanting to watch me fuck.  He thinks that the guy will know how to push my buttons and show me a really good time.  And my husband likes to watch me have fun.  So, because it sometimes can take a little time to organize the details, I emailed MrOneWordBooty around 10am to see if he was interested.   He said he was, so we made plans for meeting at his place around 9:oopm.  He gave me the address and I was excited to see what would happen.  His profile isn’t one that does a lot for me; meaning I don’t feel instant lust when I view his profile and he’s not one of those must-meet men for me.   My husband and I got on the road a little after 8pm and texted my new potential boy toy.  He gave me no response.  I tried giving him a call.  No answer.  I left a voicemail and sent another text, letting him know we were on our way. He never returned my call or answered my text. We drove to his place, assuming he would be in contact while we were in transit, but we never heard from him. We were stood up! From what I’ve heard, this is a pretty common occurrence in the lifestyle, but it was a first for us. After a while, we decided to go home and just as I was crawling into bed, MrOneWordBooty texted me that he had a family emergency and was hoping we could try again. I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt, even though I think he probably could have at least texted me to to cancel. I’ve been waiting to hear from him again either via email, text, or phone call, but so far nothing. And at this point, I’m not interested, whether I hear from him or not.

Sunday night I met up with a guy from Craigslist who answered an ad I placed looking for a boyfriend.   You can see my posts from June 29 and 30th about how that went.

On Wednesday night, my husband and I went to meet our new friend from this post again. I am always a little nervous when I meet a guy for the second time. I’m never sure if he will be as sexy or as fun as I remember. Once I walked in, he was as handsome as I remembered. He is a very clean kind of guy, but not at all in a metrosexual way. His skin is very smooth on his face and entire body. His face is youthful, yet experienced, and he has a strong jawline. His arms are big and strong. And what I especially noticed on Wednesday night was how great he smelled. I don’t know if it was deodorant, soap, or cologne, but I just wanted to inhale him for an extended period of time. Kissing him was so incredibly lustful and that smell just permeated down through my sinuses into my chest and down to my groin where excited my pussy, causing it to twitch and lubricate itself. We talked a little bit about the guy who stood us up on Saturday, and MrFuntoWatch expressed his disbelief that someone would stand me up. We made it to the bedroom much sooner this time than last time. Learning from experience, MrFuntoWatch had an extra layer of protection on his bed to accommodate my gushing orgasmic tendencies. Like last time, he alternated between fucking me and eating me out. We had texted during the week about how he wanted to cum on my tits, so after fucking for quite a while both with me on my back and with him on his, I asked him if he was going to cum on my tits.

That’s when he said the words that just epitomize what I expect from men in the bedroom. He told me that he wasn’t going to do that until he had made sure that my every desire to be sucked and fucked had been fully satisfied. His cock was growing hard in my hand and his invitation to fuck me again couldn’t be declined, so I rode his cock some more. At one point, I was fucking him so hard that his head was pounding the headboard! Intense! Never have I been the one to fuck someone that hard. It was hot. He asked me if I liked his dick in me, and of course, the answer was yes. Finally, I was ready to let him shoot his load on my tits, so I moved to kneel on the floor and he took off his condom and exploded his load all over my tits and nipples. So much fucking fun! And my sexy hubby sat in his chair next to the door watching. The only thing that could have improved the experience is if he would have stroked himself while watching me. Maybe next time!!

So that was Wednesday and you might think I was satisfied and ready for a night off. But the next day at work, Mr TallBaldnHandsome texted me asking me to come over and see him that night. I asked my hubby’s permission and promised that if he gave me the okay to go, I would be “on break” through July 5. I wanted to spend my three day holiday weekend with the family, cleaning house, and just truly relaxing. My hubby gave me the go ahead, so I went to see one of my favorite playmates, who also drives me the most crazy - in both a good way and a bad way. Come back later today or tomorrow and read about my night with MrTallBaldnHandsome.

Meeting men on Craigslist

We’ve recently been experimenting with using Craigslist to meet playmates.  I find it really tedious and not very successful at all.   I don’t want to post our photos on Craigslist, and I don’t want to meet people whose photo I haven’t seen.  So Craigslist often becomes a game of chicken; who is going to be first to “give” a photo.  It can be really annoying and it seems to take forever to find someone you might be interested in.

Also, it can be pretty awkward to be connecting with someone via email and then find yourself not at all wanting to hook up once you’ve seen the photo.   How do you tactfully tell someone, “Well now that I’ve seen your photo, I’m not so interested anymore.”   A while ago we had this great email from a couple inviting us to come hang out in their hot tub for a few drinks.  It all seemed like a great way to spend an evening, but once we got the photo, we realized they were quite a bit older than us and that we weren’t interested.

In any case, on Sunday I was looking around Craigslist looking for some fun and interesting ads.  Mr SS has been really wanting to watch me with another guy lately, so we’ve kind of been trying to figure that out.   After a couple (or few) hours of browsing and getting annoyed by Craigslist.  I impulsively posted the following at about 8:40pm:

My husband wants to watch me be pleasured tonight! And soon………

We want to be out the door by 9pm.

Here’s the criteria:
You are over 30
You know how to please a woman orally and sexually
You can host
You send a face pic in your email response
You will wear a condom

Bonus:
You have a hot tub
You live or have a hotel room in Eagan, AppleValley, Burnsville, West Bloomington

Respond soon, please!

I got a few responses and was ruthless about deleting those that didn’t include photos or photos that I found unattractive.  One guy sent an email with a face photo and a torso photo.  I thought he was cute and my hubby thought he seemed “ok”.   After a couple emails back and forth, hubby and I decided to drive to his place and see what would happen.

Please tune in tomorrow for the story of our encounter!  (Not because I’m trying to lure you back, but because I’m tired and want to perv a few swinger sites before I go to sleep.)

Swinging while my Husband Watches

I haven’t yet had the opportunity to write about our “extra-curricular” activities from last weekend.  A couple months ago, my husband expressed his desire to watch me have sex with another guy.  This isn’t the typical way that we swing.  We generally either play together with other couples swapping partners, or we go out separately on solo dates. When we re-entered the swinging world last year, I told hubby I wasn’t really in the mood to do threesomes. Although threesomes are how we originally got started in this lifestyle many many years ago, it just wasn’t something I desired at this time in our lives.

So when my husband first expressed this new desire, I was a little bit aprehensive, but gave it some serious consideration.  After all, I love my husband and I really enjoy being with him sexually.  Maybe it would be fun to have him watch me? We talked quite a bit about who might be the right guy for this scenario.  Hubby said that he wanted it to be someone who REALLY turned me on so he could watch me in action fully enjoying myself. He also didn’t want it to be any of our regular partners or people he considers “friends” in the lifestyle. As he put it, he wanted it to be a random booty call guy.

The problem with this scenario is that I don’t generally get really turned on by the whole random booty call thing. I find that the best connections are made when there is some familiarity with the person.  I like for the chemistry to be pre-established prior to actually sleeping with someone. It’s very hard to relax with a guy you don’t know very well, and it’s even harder to enjoy yourself sexually when you aren’t relaxed. So it took a bit of thinking to figure out a guy who I know and am very turned on by, but who hubby doesn’t know.  Because we sometimes go out separately, there were a couple guys who I had met at parties and such while hubby was out of town fishing. One guy in particular came to mind, but he lives a few hours away.  He comes into town about once a month on business.  We tried to make it happen last time he was in town, but our schedules didn’t sync up.  Last Saturday, I got a text message from him saying that he had a hotel room in town and was looking for some company.  When I read his text message, I instantly got very excited hoping that hubby was still interested in fulfilling his fantasy.  I texted back and forth a bit with the guy and sure enough, he was game for the whole “hubby watching” plan too.

Hubby and I got ready and left for his hotel around 6:30pm.  The plan was to meet him at 7pm and see what happened from there.  About 10 minutes before we arrived, he texted to let me know that some other people had stopped by the room as well.  Saturday night was a very popular lifestyle Halloween party in our area, which was the reason this guy was in town.  These parties attract hundreds of attendees and many of them get rooms at one of three nearby hotels.  So it’s quite common for folks to filter in and out of each other’s rooms.  So it was really no problem.  We arrived and realized the people in his room were actually some other friends of ours.  We had a nice time, had a few drinks, admired everyone’s costumes, got a little tipsy, but no playing in that group.  After what seemed  like forever, the “other” folks left and my visiting guy came over and gave me a very sensual kiss.  Prior to Saturday night, we had only kissed one other time that I remember and probably met only two or three times.

The guy’s kiss was so nice.  Not hard or intense, but very sensual, sexy, and relaxed!  I knew I wanted to fuck him before we all left to go to the Halloween party.  I can’t remember exactly how everything got started, but the three of us (the guy, me, and my hubby) ended up on the same bed.  I think I was the first one to get my clothes off as my new playmate went down on me.  While he was doing that, hubby was kissing me and stroking my hair.  It was so nice and wonderful.  After a while, I took of the guys pants and sucked his gorgeous penis.  At this point, hubby still had all his clothes on, so while I was giving my new date head, I reached inside my husbands pants and began stroking his hard cock.

So I’m not sure how many details I want to get into here.  So I am just going to say that it was so nice to have hubby there to help take care of my needs while I was having fun with a sexy playmate.  Hubby would gently move my hair out of my face, rub my shoulders, turn the lights down, hold my hand, and kiss me all over.  I actually really enjoyed having him there with me.  Like I said, this is not generally how we do our thing, and it’s not even something I thought I wanted, but it turned out to be so much fun!  I definitely want to do it again!! With our same playmate and maybe with some others.  The funny thing is I feel like I want to thank my husband for the wonderful experience, even though technically it was HIS fantasy that we were fulfilling.  That is the wonderful thing about swinging……everyone wins!