A Little Teaser For You….

I only have a few minutes to blog before I go to work.  I wish I worked at a place where I could secretly look at porn, blog, and instant message, but that is never going to happen at my job.  For several reasons.  I do maintain some minor texting and that can get me hot and make me smile in the middle of the day.  :)  Just have to remember to not leave my phone lying around.

So more news on the Craigslist front.   I met another guy and this time I went by myself.  I posted an ad looking for a boyfriend (or 2) and got several responses.  One guy in particular looked cute and sexy, not in the naughty hot boy way, but in a sort of smart, normal, fun way.  We went out for a drink at a place with an outdoor patio.  The weather was just fucking gorgeous.  A perfect summer evening!  We had a couple glasses of wine and just talked about all sorts of topics sexual and non sexual.  He had asked me in our emails if there might be an opportunity to get a room if we “clicked” and at one point he told me that he thought this meeting was going particularly well.  Then twice he asked me how I was feeling.  Which was basically his nice way of asking me if we were going to have sex.  At least, that’s how I took it.

What was my answer??
Well…..I will post the details of what happened after he paid our bill either tonight or tomorrow.

Meeting men on Craigslist

We’ve recently been experimenting with using Craigslist to meet playmates.  I find it really tedious and not very successful at all.   I don’t want to post our photos on Craigslist, and I don’t want to meet people whose photo I haven’t seen.  So Craigslist often becomes a game of chicken; who is going to be first to “give” a photo.  It can be really annoying and it seems to take forever to find someone you might be interested in.

Also, it can be pretty awkward to be connecting with someone via email and then find yourself not at all wanting to hook up once you’ve seen the photo.   How do you tactfully tell someone, “Well now that I’ve seen your photo, I’m not so interested anymore.”   A while ago we had this great email from a couple inviting us to come hang out in their hot tub for a few drinks.  It all seemed like a great way to spend an evening, but once we got the photo, we realized they were quite a bit older than us and that we weren’t interested.

In any case, on Sunday I was looking around Craigslist looking for some fun and interesting ads.  Mr SS has been really wanting to watch me with another guy lately, so we’ve kind of been trying to figure that out.   After a couple (or few) hours of browsing and getting annoyed by Craigslist.  I impulsively posted the following at about 8:40pm:

My husband wants to watch me be pleasured tonight! And soon………

We want to be out the door by 9pm.

Here’s the criteria:
You are over 30
You know how to please a woman orally and sexually
You can host
You send a face pic in your email response
You will wear a condom

Bonus:
You have a hot tub
You live or have a hotel room in Eagan, AppleValley, Burnsville, West Bloomington

Respond soon, please!

I got a few responses and was ruthless about deleting those that didn’t include photos or photos that I found unattractive.  One guy sent an email with a face photo and a torso photo.  I thought he was cute and my hubby thought he seemed “ok”.   After a couple emails back and forth, hubby and I decided to drive to his place and see what would happen.

Please tune in tomorrow for the story of our encounter!  (Not because I’m trying to lure you back, but because I’m tired and want to perv a few swinger sites before I go to sleep.)

Our First Craigslist Posting

Wednesday of last week, we tried something completely new. We posted a Craigslist ad looking for a couple who might want to host us for an evening of playtime. We were just very much in the mood to play, but these sort of short order searches generally don’t usually amount to a whole lot. Typically, we would post what’s called a booty call on our favorite swinger site: Lifestyle Lounge. Even though LL’s booty call list is well known for having a very low success rate, I have met a few fun people that way and even had sex with a couple of them. It’s been rumored that people have some amount of success hooking up on Craigslist, so we decided to give it a try. I posted a message describing hubby and I and asking for people to send us a photo if they wanted a reply.

First thing that happened is a lifestyle friend of mine (guy who I play with) sent me a text asking if hubby and I were on Craigslist. Apparently I was a bit too specific with our descriptions; I did list our correct city, ages, hair color/styles, heights, and weights. Hubby suggested that maybe I should be a bit more vague next time in case people we know outside the lifestyle might be browsing just for kicks. I guess I figured being specific would help avoid the need to post a photo and risk being found out. Apparently when you describe yourself to a T, you don’t need photos! LOL

Exactly one couple responded to our ad. They were a bit older than us, mid 50’s, but that’s not necessarily a deal breaker. They had a hot tub and wanted us to come right over. This is NOT typically the way we do things. We like to know people and become friends or at least good acquaintances before playing to help establish some chemistry. But we like to step out of the box sometimes, so we emailed them back asking for a photo. DUMB!! My ad specifically said that in order to receive a reply, they must include a photo.  I hate having to ASK for a photo, because then if there isn’t an attraction, it’s very difficult to say, “well we were interested, but after viewing your photos, not so much.” The female wasn’t unattractive. She was slender with blonde hair, but she did look a bit old and hubby just wasn’t feeling like there would be a connection. The guy on the other hand…..I don’t want to be rude, so I am going to say this in the nicest way possible. He looked like Albert Einstein with glasses. Gray hair that was sticking up on end, huge glare on his glasses, and I swear his eyes were closed. How on earth does anyone expect me to see that photo and say, “Oh wow, please please please let me fuck you asap!”

Luckily they lived almost an hour and a half away, so we just explained that we didn’t want to drive that far on a work night. They did offer to let us spend the night, but we declined “because the kids couldn’t stay home alone over night.” True, but also convenient.

So what did I learn from this experience?

1. The theory that says no photos in the initial email is a bad sign seems to have more evidence to support it.
2. Age does matter if people look their age (and older)
3. Looks matter
4. Craigslist probably has no better success rate than any other booty call option
5. We were horny, but not that horny!
6. One should be careful not to describe themselves TOO accurately on a site that is available to the general public.

Does this mean I am giving up on Craigslist? Absolutely not!! I’ll try again and keep reporting back on our success rate.