Lifestyle Halloween Joke

Here is a little funny that came to me via email:

“I’ll tell you, I never even danced one dance. When I got there, I met Pete, Bill Brown and some other guys, so we went into the den and played poker all evening. But you’re not going to believe what happened to the guy I loaned my costume to….”

Swinging while my Husband Watches

I haven’t yet had the opportunity to write about our “extra-curricular” activities from last weekend.  A couple months ago, my husband expressed his desire to watch me have sex with another guy.  This isn’t the typical way that we swing.  We generally either play together with other couples swapping partners, or we go out separately on solo dates. When we re-entered the swinging world last year, I told hubby I wasn’t really in the mood to do threesomes. Although threesomes are how we originally got started in this lifestyle many many years ago, it just wasn’t something I desired at this time in our lives.

So when my husband first expressed this new desire, I was a little bit aprehensive, but gave it some serious consideration.  After all, I love my husband and I really enjoy being with him sexually.  Maybe it would be fun to have him watch me? We talked quite a bit about who might be the right guy for this scenario.  Hubby said that he wanted it to be someone who REALLY turned me on so he could watch me in action fully enjoying myself. He also didn’t want it to be any of our regular partners or people he considers “friends” in the lifestyle. As he put it, he wanted it to be a random booty call guy.

The problem with this scenario is that I don’t generally get really turned on by the whole random booty call thing. I find that the best connections are made when there is some familiarity with the person.  I like for the chemistry to be pre-established prior to actually sleeping with someone. It’s very hard to relax with a guy you don’t know very well, and it’s even harder to enjoy yourself sexually when you aren’t relaxed. So it took a bit of thinking to figure out a guy who I know and am very turned on by, but who hubby doesn’t know.  Because we sometimes go out separately, there were a couple guys who I had met at parties and such while hubby was out of town fishing. One guy in particular came to mind, but he lives a few hours away.  He comes into town about once a month on business.  We tried to make it happen last time he was in town, but our schedules didn’t sync up.  Last Saturday, I got a text message from him saying that he had a hotel room in town and was looking for some company.  When I read his text message, I instantly got very excited hoping that hubby was still interested in fulfilling his fantasy.  I texted back and forth a bit with the guy and sure enough, he was game for the whole “hubby watching” plan too.

Hubby and I got ready and left for his hotel around 6:30pm.  The plan was to meet him at 7pm and see what happened from there.  About 10 minutes before we arrived, he texted to let me know that some other people had stopped by the room as well.  Saturday night was a very popular lifestyle Halloween party in our area, which was the reason this guy was in town.  These parties attract hundreds of attendees and many of them get rooms at one of three nearby hotels.  So it’s quite common for folks to filter in and out of each other’s rooms.  So it was really no problem.  We arrived and realized the people in his room were actually some other friends of ours.  We had a nice time, had a few drinks, admired everyone’s costumes, got a little tipsy, but no playing in that group.  After what seemed  like forever, the “other” folks left and my visiting guy came over and gave me a very sensual kiss.  Prior to Saturday night, we had only kissed one other time that I remember and probably met only two or three times.

The guy’s kiss was so nice.  Not hard or intense, but very sensual, sexy, and relaxed!  I knew I wanted to fuck him before we all left to go to the Halloween party.  I can’t remember exactly how everything got started, but the three of us (the guy, me, and my hubby) ended up on the same bed.  I think I was the first one to get my clothes off as my new playmate went down on me.  While he was doing that, hubby was kissing me and stroking my hair.  It was so nice and wonderful.  After a while, I took of the guys pants and sucked his gorgeous penis.  At this point, hubby still had all his clothes on, so while I was giving my new date head, I reached inside my husbands pants and began stroking his hard cock.

So I’m not sure how many details I want to get into here.  So I am just going to say that it was so nice to have hubby there to help take care of my needs while I was having fun with a sexy playmate.  Hubby would gently move my hair out of my face, rub my shoulders, turn the lights down, hold my hand, and kiss me all over.  I actually really enjoyed having him there with me.  Like I said, this is not generally how we do our thing, and it’s not even something I thought I wanted, but it turned out to be so much fun!  I definitely want to do it again!! With our same playmate and maybe with some others.  The funny thing is I feel like I want to thank my husband for the wonderful experience, even though technically it was HIS fantasy that we were fulfilling.  That is the wonderful thing about swinging……everyone wins!

Nieczytelne recepty w aptekach sprzedających przez kasy fiskalne

Nieczytelne recepty w aptekach sprzedających przez kasy fiskalne

Zaistniał poważny problem. Sąd Najwyższy wydał wyrok, który całkowicie, iż recepty, jeśli są nieczytelną są nieprawidłowe i nie podlegają refundacji, a praktyka pokazuje, iż jest to na pewno 90% recept wystawianych obecnie w Polsce. coś takiego może przyczynić się do pozbawienia leków refundowanych przeważającej części chorych w Polsce. Kolejny sąd stwierdził, iż: aptekarz musi mieć świadomość, iż jeśli nie doprowadzi do zrealizowania recepty i sprzedaży leku przez kasy fiskalne Tychy, wówczas całkowita odpowiedzialność za stan zdrowia pacjenta spadnie na niego oraz, że NFZ zabierając aptekom refundację w samej rzeczy chce wytworzyć oszczędności, co nie ma żadnego  powiązania z dobrem pacjenta.
Według opinii prezesa rady Śląskiej Izby Aptecznej, doktora farmacji, Stanisława Piechuli: - Jedyną osobą, która winna ponosić odpowiedzialność za wystawiane recepty ma być lekarz, gdyż inaczej cierpieć będą tylko i wyłącznie chorzy, którym apteki zmuszone będą odmawiać realizacji recept na leki refundowane  i sprzedaży ich przez kasy fiskalne albo sugerować całkowitą odpłatność za potrzebny lek, albo będą proponowali staranie się o poprawienie recepty, co w żadnym przypadku nie odnosi się do żadnej społecznej uczciwości i podstaw poszanowania prawa, które nasze Państwo gwarantuje pacjentowi lek jako świadczenie gwarantowane. ( dalej >>> )

Overcoming Jealousy and Exploring the Lifestyle with an Open Mind

I recently received an email seeking advice on how it works to share your spouse with others.  I will do my best to answer based on our own experience.  First, here’s the question:

Hi there!  I am the wifey in a loving beautiful marriage that has gone on for 14 years now.  I want to let go of my boundaries with my husband so we can freely explore the way we want to.  We have had experiences with different women together while we have been married but I have a slightly difficult time with jealousy-  I really like my man and sometimes I don’t neccessarily want to share him. ;)  I’d love to hear about you guys, if you would like to share with another little wifey the “secrets” of being openminded and enjoying a healthy sex life together without the hang ups of any awkward feelings that may come.  It is an awesome blessing to be married to my best friend and I want to give so many great experiences to him in our lifetime.  Perhaps your insight can help me shed my inhibitions appropriately.

First of all, thanks to the writer of the question who allowed me to post her question to my blog.  I don’t claim to know all the answers here, but I can provide my own experience and hopefully it can help others who are interested in pursuing a non-traditional sexuality in their marriage.

Anyone who describes their marriage as loving and beautiful is definitely in the right frame of mind to begin considering stretching the boundaries of monogamy within their relationship.  Sharing your partner sexually with other people will shine a light on any insecurities or problems that are pre-existing in the relationship.  Please don’t take this to mean that you need to wait until your marriage is perfect before beginning your explorations.  No marriage is perfect!  What you do need, however, is a willingness to examine these feelings as they crop up and have true, open, honest communication with your spouse.  When we decided to take a more serious look at the lifestyle last year, it was important to me that any text message flirtations were saved on each of our phones and that we read them at the end of a day.  I didn’t want any “secret” flirting going on that I wasn’t aware of, and I didn’t want to feel as though I was texting things to other men that I wouldn’t want my husband to see/read.  So even on the days when he told me that I could delete the messages without him reading them, I’d ask him to please just read them anyway.  It was a bit of a safety net for me.

I love the part of your email where you say that you really like your hubby and don’t necessarily want to share him.  I have this exact same feeling.  There are some couples in the lifestyle who get really turned on by the idea of their spouse fucking other people.  For me, it’s never been about that.  Instead, I enjoy the freedom to explore my sexuality with other partners and am willing to offer my husband that same freedom because I love him, but also because I am getting something in return.  You don’t mention your sexuality in your email.  I know that many women in the lifestyle are bi-sexual, but for me, threesomes with other women would never be a satisfying option for me in this lifestyle.  I am 100% straight and enjoy men so much (both in and out of the bedroom).   You say in your email that you want to “give so many great experiences” to your husband in your lifetime.  I would encourage you to think of the lifestyle not as something you are giving to your husband, but an exciting adventure that the two of you are embarking upon.  An adventure which both of you can and should get equal enjoyment from.  Think about your own needs, wants, and desires and how the lifestyle might help you explore them.  Then consider offering your husband the kind of freedom he needs to do the same.

The Very First Blog Post

Welcome to our brand new blog! We are a happily married couple living in the suburbs who also happen to be swingers. Yes, that’s right, we have recreational sex with other singles and couples. It’s not exactly an open marriage, but more of a hobby that we share. We first began exploring “the lifestyle” (as it is known to insiders) very early in our marriage. We have had a variety of experiences over the years and the level of our involvement has varied. Some years we were simply experimenting, other years we were completely monogamous, and there was even a spell where we were almost celibate. Last year, we joined an online lifestyle website and we are more involved than ever. In our eighteen years of marriage, we have really learned a lot about ourselves, our relationship, sexuality, communication, and so much more. Swinging has been a huge part of that.

I am so excited about this blog for many reasons. I have blogged off and on since the early 90’s. I find it is a great way to express myself, explore my inner psyche, connect with a larger audience, share my insights, and learn from myself and others. In addition, the last year of being in the lifestyle has really allowed me to watch the dynamics of other couples trying to navigate this alternative sexuality. It can be really difficult and sometimes causes some tension for couples. Although my husband and I aren’t immune to this tension, we seem to have a pretty good handle on it, and I think we have some insight to share with others.

So, if you happen to be here for our very first post, we’d love to hear from you! What kind of posts interest you? Do you have any questions we can answer for you? Looking very forward to this new blogging adventure!

Swinging Single Women

Have you ever wondered why it is so difficult to find “Single Bi-Females” in the lifestyle? I think I have come to the conclusion why this is. I and some of our other friends have found it very difficult to meet women who are supposedly “Single” and that are swingers. Single Women in the Lifestyle